Because you’re 30 and single doesn’t mean you should throw in the Towel
Society has stereotyped and put a lot of Pressure on Ladies who are single and thirty years old & above.
As a result of this pressure from friends, family and close associates, when some ladies turn thirty and there are no visible suitors in sight, they develop some personality traits or defense mechanisms which may not be in their best interest.
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For example they stop going out totally, stop bothering about their makeup or fashion acumen, they say things like “I’m too old to attend this function” or “too old to go to the club”, looking down on every guy because they have achieved a lot at their age and some guys may not meet their standard or pay grade.
But what they don’t know is that by staying indoors and saying I’m too old for “this and that” how will u meet a decent guy?, if you’re interested in settling down, no guy will break into your house and court you. From my first hand experience; I have some lady friends who are thirtyyears old and above who still look smashing and stunning and also give 21 year old ladies a run for their money, they also have loads of potentials and suitors.
This is because these ladies have not allowed what I call “thirty year old syndrome” and pressure to get to them.” They are living gracefully while trusting in God at the Same time. Let’s encourage our sisters and friends dealing with this situation because society and its norms are not too friendly to them. In my Opinion thirty is the new twenty-five and age is just a number and state of mind.